500 followers!

I reached 500 followers today. That’s unbelievable to me! Coincidentally, my last post was my 500th post as well. I don’t write to garner followers and I make no money from my blog. But I’m grateful and honored that you choose to spend some of your time reading about my life. I’m also always grateful […]

History

I’ve had an increase in followers recently and thought it would be a good time to give a little history of how I got to be where I am today; a sub to one, a Domme to another. I think I’ve been pretty clear here of late that I identify as a switch (My switchiness […]

Food 4 Thought Friday -Masturbation

Miss Scarlett made a post answering questions posed by Food 4 Thought Friday and it sounded fun so I decided to do it too! I know it’s not Friday but who cares lol Have you ever let your partner watch you masturbate? It was not until we had D/s in our life that my husband ever watched me […]

Update on me

Ok now for me! So to get caught up on me and the husband you can read Update: the husband. As for me… hmmmm what can I say? I’ll just let my thoughts free flow. It’s been almost a year since I first read about D/s. A lot has happened in that time. You can read about […]

Update: babygirl & thoughts on a sub’s attachment

Things are progressing with babygirl. Not as quickly as she would like I’m sure. She was in a bit of a frenzy at the beginning -wanting to try All The Things all at once. I understood because I have been there before. But I can see that calming down now. She expressed an interest in […]

Update on pet & thoughts about limitations

Pet is still recovering from surgery. His mobility and privacy are limited but increasing. He is making the effort and I know he worries I’m losing interest. But it is difficult to be the Mistress I was, the one he wants, when faced with these limits. I hope I’m not disappointing him. We both just […]

Not enough

Me: Does it bother you I play with others? Him: You are too much to handle for just one person, dear. That is why you need the others. One will never be enough for you. You would never be satisfied. I pout at his words but deep inside I know he speaks the truth.

Update: the husband

For those who follow my other blog some of this is going to be a repeat. Feel free to skip it. I am coming to accept the fact that the husband is vanilla. And while he tries, and has been so open to experimenting with me, he will never be into the things I am […]

Time to meet baby boy

What’s better than having him locked in a cage? Adding bells to it. So every time he walks or moves they go jingle jingle jingle. Hehe This is baby boy. He is freaking adorable. But also sexy as fuck. Oh and he reads this blog from time to time and is probably going to be […]

Cane or colouring book?

Ok so depression sucks. It’s been awhile since I’ve had an episode and maybe because it’s been so long it’s hitting me hard this time. I’m so emotional. I keep crying over small stupid stuff and then my temper flares the next second. Mood swings are typical when my depression is this bad. I miss […]