I reached 500 followers today. That’s unbelievable to me! Coincidentally, my last post was my 500th post as well. I don’t write to garner followers and I make no money from my blog. But I’m grateful and honored that you choose to spend some of your time reading about my life. I’m also always grateful […]

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A trip down memory lane

Daily writing prompt from 30 Days of D/s: Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind? I am in two […]

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How I Dominate and submit

Here is the Day 2 writing prompt from 30 Days of D/s: A) Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you submissive to play partners […]

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I’ve had an increase in followers recently and thought it would be a good time to give a little history of how I got to be where I am today; a sub to one, a Domme to another. I think I’ve been pretty clear here of late that I identify as a switch (My switchiness […]

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I really admire those who know exactly what they want. Who know who they are. I don’t know what I want. Actually maybe it’s not that I don’t know what I want. Maybe it’s that I know what I want but I can’t have it, so I look for concessions but am never really satisfied. […]

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Update on me

Ok now for me! So to get caught up on me and the husband you can read Update: the husband. As for me… hmmmm what can I say? I’ll just let my thoughts free flow. It’s been almost a year since I first read about D/s. A lot has happened in that time. You can read about […]

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Not enough

Me: Does it bother you I play with others? Him: You are too much to handle for just one person, dear. That is why you need the others. One will never be enough for you. You would never be satisfied. I pout at his words but deep inside I know he speaks the truth.  

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