Denial as a punishment

Denial as punishment or discipline does not do good things for my mental health. Denial as a demonstration of who is in control; denial as a way of suffering for him; denial simply for his amusement; denial as a “funishment” for being bratty; all still suck, but is fine. Denial as a true punishment – […]

Ask and you shall receive – just be careful what you ask for

I have been edging for Sir, during our days apart. No orgasms for me until he decides to give me one. I’m banking on him giving me one multiple orgasms when I see him again on Wednesday. Today I shared with him my desire to suffer for him, even when we aren’t together. I said […]

Playing at my house

I had my girl come over the other night and we played for the first time at my house. My little guy was asleep. My adult daughter was watching a movie and as far as she was concerned we were just hanging out in my room, talking like women do, listening to music. Meanwhile….. I […]

Note to self: do not call your Dom predictable (#NSFW, 18+)

My mouth gets me in trouble. Words spill out before I can think of the consequences of saying said words. For example, in response to a comment he made, which I knew he was going to make, I may have teasingly told MrDom that he was getting predictable. I paid for it later. Because those […]

s gets spanked -OTK style

Never underestimate the power of an OTK spanking… I put s over my knee the other night and gave him a good hard spanking. He hated it. (Crazy huh? Like, who doesn’t enjoy a good old fashioned OTK spanking?!) But he was snippy with me all day and I was just tired of his disrepectful […]

Toys…. and anal

Today’s writing prompt came to me via email through Loving BDSM 30 Days of D/s and is all about toys. What kind of toys do you like, what do you like about toys, how do you use your toys, etc. I do talk about toys here but somehow digressed to anal sex… It should be no surprise […]

A long, hard spanking

This one is for NaughtyNora… I texted him: Daddy there’s one thing I want for tomorrow. Oh? And what’s the one thing you want for tomorrow? A long hard spanking. With pleasure. Thank you Daddy. I arrive wearing a short beige and white polka dot dress with lace blue panties underneath that barely cover my […]

Missed opportunity for s

Tonight he suggested he be allowed a release. It’s been awhile, at least a week (I really should be keeping track. Or at least have him keep track) so I agreed. But it would be on my terms. It’s always on my terms. I stripped down to my panties and laid beside him but away […]

Dom, sub or switch? (Day 1 of 30 Days of Kink)

I start these 30 day writing prompts and never quite manage to complete them. But I came across this one today, 30 Days of Kink and have decided to try again. So here goes it with Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means […]

Don’t mistake my silence for inaction (18+ #NSFW)

Just because I don’t write much about what is happening with s here doesn’t mean his training is not continuing. It is. It’s going well. He has even shown initiative, which pleases me. I am training him on positions now, using Mistress Ezada Sinn’s “Positions Manual for Submissive Males”. I like how she has a […]