Topping bob

I had two completely opposite scenes last night at the party. In the first one, I Topped a gentleman with impact play. About a week ago I was contacted by a Femdom couple from across the border. We have met a few times at various events. He had seen me play with z and in […]

The Mistress Munch

I had a great day yesterday. It started with the Mistress Munch Mistress hosts every couple of months. It’s very selective. A maximum of 12 Dominant woman are invited to attend. Each munch has a topic. This month it was on CBT. We had four men serving us lunch and champagne. And then bottoming for […]

Letting a sub go

I had to let a sub go yesterday. This is the second time I’ve had to do this. The first was toy, who I adored but the time difference just didn’t work for us. He didn’t want to be let go but understood. We have played a bit since then but not often. It was […]

Songs for me

Pet find me a song that makes you think of me when you hear it… I love it! And another one…. an oldie but a goodie…

Simple games to play with your sub

I enjoy playing games. All kinds. Board games. Cards. Dice. You name it. I’m pretty competitive so maybe that accounts for it. So it’s only natural that as a Mistress I have incorporated my love of game playing into my dynamic. It makes things fun, exciting, and interesting. It also creates a good balance between […]

I get bored

I get bored. I like being pursued or pursuing. Once I’ve been caught or have caught you, the fun shouldn’t end there. Make me laugh. Excite me. Arouse me. If you don’t, I get bored. Don’t get me wrong. I know it’s a two way street. But I put in my efforts. I try and […]

Odds and ends

I was asked recently what can online subs do for me to make my life easier. Practical things. The person asking couldn’t see it possible that they would actually be useful for something other than entertainment or feeding my dominance. There are a number of things they do for me. From weather reports every morning […]

a domme’s perogative

Pet and I played a game today with a reward for the winner. The end result is that he gets a ….. special recording from me. So I made the recording (that was enjoyable). But I had to let him know that it’s just so damn good I simply can’t give it away for free. […]

The power of words

I have a very vivid imagination. Which is why Words are so powerful for me. They create instant images in my mind and can transport me to whichever scenario they happen to be creating. Spin me a fantasy with your Words and I am engulfed by them, living it. My mind is easily the most […]

Update on the boys

I realize I haven’t done an update post in awhile. So here goes… j: I don’t know what to say about him. On the one hand, I love that he makes it all about it me. “Whatever you desire Mistress. I exist to serve you. Please you. Make you happy…..” blah blah blah. It’s …. […]