MrDom is an….

… awesome guy! He thought I was going to post something else there… because of the punishment I received last night. But what he doesn’t realize is, as much as I HATED it and really hoped he wasn’t serious, or would change his mind and let me off, I respect him for not letting it […]

I survived kinky camp – “you can ring my (cow) bell”

Continuing with instalment number two of my recount from kinky camp…. After the littles picnic we head back to our site to get ready for the site crawl. This is where everyone gathers together and goes as one big group to different hosting sites to receive a treat. Things such as shots, Jell-O shots, meatballs, […]

Simple games to play with your sub

I enjoy playing games. All kinds. Board games. Cards. Dice. You name it. I’m pretty competitive so maybe that accounts for it. So it’s only natural that as a Mistress I have incorporated my love of game playing into my dynamic. It makes things fun, exciting, and interesting. It also creates a good balance between […]

The boys

J is very obedient. I can’t take too much credit for that. He came to me well trained. I finally had cause to punish him the other day. It was minor. He hadn’t messaged me when he got home. I have to say I got worried. So unlike him. I’m used to him telling me […]

Thoughts from a male submissive

I mentioned in my last post that I had pet make a blog when we first started. I left it up to pet to decide if he wanted to make it public or private. He chose to leave it private, which I think is a shame. I think other subs could relate to what he […]

Pet feels down

This might be a bit of a rambling post. I don’t have a clue where it’s going to go. I just know I want to process a bit on my pet tonight. A few days ago I was talking with pet about feeling depressed. I’ve been a bit withdrawn. Also on this day I ruined […]

A Day of Punishments

Sometimes I struggle with coming up with punishment ideas when I can’t be there in person, in the moment. In person I can spank him, apply icy hot, clothespins, etc. Otherwise I have to be more creative. I’m lucky to have helpful and creative friends to get ideas from! The sub hub messed up today. […]