I Need Your Advice

I need some advice. What do you do when your Dom is too lenient with punishments? Here's the thing. I'm not a new submissive. I have years of experience, from before I even met Sir L. So the average type of punishment that a Dom would typically dole out to a new-ish submissive, isn't really …

Our Dance

"I'm going to use my hole tonight" I am his hole. I make to run away, pause, look at him. He stands there a moment and then moves as if to pounce. I squeal.Nowhere to go but across the bed, so I begin to scamper. He grins, grabs my leg. and drags me to the …

Obedience or Service Oriented Submissive?

I've read a lot about D/s in the almost 10 years I've been in it and I've gone through various stages of self discovery. I used to think to be a "real" submissive, you had to be service-oriented. I thought I'd if I didn't find ultimate, supreme satisfaction in freely serving my Dom, I wasn't …

His, again

He stood in front of me. I looked up at him, and he declared it was time for him to use his holes. He grabbed my hair and dragged me, kicking and clawing, down to the bedroom.... not because I didn't want him to fuck me. I wanted that. But I like to fight him... …

In the Shallow End

It's been so long, I'm not sure how to start! Lol Do I give a background summary first? Do I give an update? Or do I just dive right in and start writing what's really on my mind? A summary feels overwhelming to me. And when I think about doing that, I always click off …

Random Thought

When you deny someone what they need or want, after a certain amount of time has passed, that need or want is gone, replaced by resentment. (Is it really gone though? Or just repressed?) And after time even the resentment goes, replaced by complacency.

Potty Punishment

I made a post on my Fetlife page last night in reference to SirL: "Am I allowed to call him a greedy slut when he cums three times and is still rock hard?"  MistressV commented: "Maybe you are the greedy slut" And, always one to dig myself a hole, I couldn't help myself. I replied: …

The SNAIL

It has arrived! The SNAIL Dual Stimulator from SVibe. Here is the unboxing: 1. Front 2. Back 3. The opening 4/5. Carrying case 6. As is. 7. Unrolled It's charging now. I can't wait to try this unique toy! My initial thoughts as I unboxed this beauty were.... It's bigger than I thought, but very, …

“Why Would a sub Need Another sub?”

I almost wrote a longer post in regards to my previous one, but I didn't feel like getting into it, so I purposely left it brief: "Feeling the need for more kink, BDSM, D/s in my life. Perhaps it's time I find another submissive? Something to think about."And left it at that. And then along …

Need

Feeling the need for more kink, BDSM, D/s in my life. Perhaps it's time I find another submissive? Something to think about.